
Intentional Habits
tiny changes, Huge Impact
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Clarity is about uncovering the deeper reason behind your goals. Without it, even the best habits can leave you busy but unfulfilled.
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Consistency is where your vision becomes reality through small, repeatable actions that compound over time.
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Connection is what transforms personal habits into something greater than yourself, where your habits ripple outward into relationships, purpose, and legacy.
A few years ago, I came home from work and my three-year-old daughter came running toward me, her face lit with joy. Like any dad would, I scooped her up and lifted her into the air. Then, suddenly, my legs gave out.
At the hospital, doctors explained that a herniated disc was pressing against my spinal cord. With therapy, they said, I might walk again. But they warned me: I should never lift more than fifteen pounds. My daughter already weighed more than that.
The thought that I might never carry her on my shoulders, chase her in the park, or run beside her broke me in ways I can’t describe.
And yet, the very next morning, I woke to feel her tiny hands massaging my feet — her childlike attempt to help me heal. In that moment, I realized my “why” was bigger than me. I could surrender to my circumstances, or I could show her what resilience looks like.
So I started where I was. At first, I could barely shuffle across the living room. Then I swam. Then I cycled. Then I jogged. Six months later, I crossed the finish line of my first triathlon and lifted my daughter onto my shoulders — proof that small, intentional habits can rebuild not just a body, but a life.
That journey became the seed of this book. I realized that everything I’d built — my recovery, my finish lines, my growth — came down to three pillars: Clarity, Consistency, and Connection.
Clarity gave me direction. Knowing why I had to keep going anchored every step.
Consistency gave me strength. The small daily habits that seemed insignificant became the foundation for resilience.
Connection gave it meaning. My choices rippled outward, deepening my relationships with my family, friends, and even people around the world who’ve been inspired by this story.
That’s why I wrote Intentional Habits: Tiny Changes, Huge Impact. Because this isn’t just my story — it’s a framework you can use to transform yours.
In a world full of distractions, it’s so easy to live on autopilot. This book is your guide to breaking free from drift and designing a life that feels meaningful.
Inside, you’ll learn how to:
Cut through the noise and uncover your deeper why, so every action is grounded in purpose.
Build habits that last — small enough to survive your worst days, strong enough to carry you through setbacks.
Create ripple effects that strengthen your relationships, shape your legacy, and connect you to something bigger than yourself.
This isn’t about hacks or quick fixes. It’s about building a foundation of tiny, repeatable actions that add up to transformation.
With research-backed insights, real-life stories, and practical challenges at the end of each chapter, Intentional Habits will help you reclaim your attention, align your habits with your values, and live a life of clarity, resilience, and connection — not by accident, but with intention.